Bambang Tutuko Kuntopati

Graduation and Gown

When Graduation comes with a Toga as a complement, then that's when you deserve to carry the baton of your self into the wilderness of the Community. Contribute knowledge and honesty for the betterment of life. There is a battlefield that you must conquer with the kindness of your adab. You are successful, the teacher is proud to smile. Because, they have sown the seeds and have become the nation's buds. We continue the task of guiding new seeds, You continue the relay of our struggle. Because tomorrow we will be called by God to take responsibility for life. Hopefully we are in Graduation after the Hereafter Session. Help Pray for us, Goodbye My Children. We always pray with tears, so that you are safe and successful in protecting your homeland for your children and grandchildren. Carry out your breath of duty, with trust.

Saat Wisuda datang dengan Toga sebagai pelengkap, maka saat itulah kamu sudah pantas membawa tongkat komando diri ke hutan belantaranya Masyarakat. Sumbangkan ilmu dan kejujuran untuk perbaikan kehidupan. Disana medan pertempuran yang harus Engkau taklukan dengan keramahan adabmu. Kamu sukses, gurupun bangga tersenyum. Karena, sudah menabur benih dan telah menjadi Tunas Bangsa. Kami melanjutkan tugas untuk membimbing benih baru, Engkau lanjutkan estafet perjuangan kami. Karena Besok Kami akan dipanggil Allah untuk mempertanggung jawabkan hidup. Semoga kami di Wisuda setelah Sidang Akherat. Bantu Doa untuk kami, Selamat jalan Anak-Anakku. Kami selalu mendoakan bersama air mata, agar kalian selamat dan sukses menjaga tanah air untuk anak cucu. Laksanakan nafas tugasmu, dengan amanah.

Statesman

His friend also advised him to ask: "Later when you sit down, become a leader in his position. It must be different to keep your distance, it is possible to change to maintain your image". It turned out to be the general public's assessment of the person who would take the throne. It turns out that a person's true nature will be seen, when: in power (forgetting oneself) and in difficult conditions (traveling far with friends). In fact, if his parents have provided him with sufficient manners, he can lead himself well, will not trouble the environment, be sensitive to taste because his teacher has filled his soul with the knowledge of civilization. Suffice your provisions with politeness and knowledge and you will become a statesman.

Temannya berpesan juga bertanya : “nanti kalau sudah duduk jadi pimpinan diposisinya. Pasti berbeda akan jaga jarak, dimungkinkan berubah untuk menjaga image”. Ternyata itu penilaian umum masyarakat kepada pribadi yang akan naik takhta. Ternyata Sifat asli seseorang akan terlihat, pada saat : berkuasa (lupa diri) dan kondisi sulit (bepergian jauh bersama teman). Padahal, bila orang tuanya telah membekali cukup tata krama maka dia bisa memimpin dirinya dengan baik, tidak akan menyusahkan lingkungan, peka rasa karena jiwanya sudah dipenuhi Gurunya dengan ilmu peradaban. Cukupkan bekalmu dengan kesantunan dan ilmu maka kamu akan menjadi negarawan.

Patien Parents

Hey parents, don't count the goodness to advise your child so that it suppresses his mentality. Use polite words to touch the child's heart like that educates the baby. In the past, our mother taught 10 children to remain patient and did not demand that we become people. Good character is the result, Good Achievement is a bonus from the example of parents doing good when practiced in life.

Hai para orang tua, janganlah menghitung hitung kebaikan untuk menasehati anak sehingga menekan mentalnya. Gunakan kata santun agar tersentuh hati anak seperti itu mendidik buah hati. Dahulu Ibu kita mendidik 10 anak tetap sabar dan tidak menuntut kita jadi orang. Akhlak baik itu hasilnya, Prestasi Baik itu bonus dari contoh orang tua berbuat baik saat dipraktekan dalam kehidupan.

Underestimate

In general, many parties underestimate the ability in terms of opinion, let this condition happen. Keep working all the time, because good activities will continue to be honed and trained if done consistently (Istiqomah) and commitment. Time that will sharpen the sharpness of the concept of thinking for each practitioner who is diligent in writing to express opinions so that they are documented in an informative manner. Just do it, even though the dog barks, the leader continues to take steps to achieve true improvement. Keep up the good work, despite the big storm. It will pass, when the time is right. You are mentally strong to face, you pass the exam naturally.

Pada umumnya banyak pihak yang meremehkan kemampuan dalam hal pendapat, biarkan kondisi tersebut terjadi. Teruskan berkarya setiap saat, karena aktivitas baik akan terus terasah dan terlatih bila dilakukan dengan konsisten (Istiqomah) dan komitmen. Waktu yang akan mengasah ketajaman konsep berfikir tiap praktisi yang rajin menulis untuk menuangkan pendapat agar terdokumentasi secara informatif. Lakukan saja, walau anjing menggonggong pimpinan tetap melajukan langkah untuk mencapai perbaikan hakiki. Teruskan karyamu, walau badai besar. Pasti berlalu, bila waktu sudah menentukan. Anda kuat mental menghadapi, anda lulus ujian secara alami.

Argumentation

Before opening an argumentation forum, it is better to unite perceptions and let go of personal/group interests. So that, when the difference of opinion is exciting, the debate will not be emotional, let alone anarchy with blasphemous words. Opinions are definitely different but egocentric intonation controls in a flat rhythm. If the intonation fluctuates sharply, it is feared that the debaters will lead to revenge actions outside the debate ring arena. Let all parties mature in IQ, SQ and EQ. So that we all become examples for the young generation who are polite. Remember, adults do not belong to old people. Adults belong to people who think in balance between the brain and the heart, it is proven that Talk = Behavior. That's the balance ratio.

Sebelum membuka forum argumentasi, sebaikannya satukan persepsi dan lepaskan kepentingan pribadi / kelompok. Agar, perbedaan pendapat nanti saat seru perseteruan debat tidak terjadi emosional apalagi anarkis kata kata yang menghujat. Pendapat pasti berbeda tapi intonasi egoisentris kendalikan dalam alunan irama datar. Bila intonasi fluktuatif tajam dikhawatirkan menggiring pelaku debat mengarah aksi dendam diluar arena ring perdebatan. Marilah semua pihak dewasa secara IQ, SQ dan EQ. Agar kita semua menjadi contoh bagi genetasi muda yang santun. Ingat, dewasa itu bukan milik orang yang berumur tua. Dewasa itu milik orang yang berfikir seimbang antara otak dengan hati, terbukti Bicara = Prilaku. Begitulah ratio keseimbangannya.