Don't ever expect to have authority when the trust has been revoked, let alone the honor has faded, don't ever expect people to submit again. Just wait for the time. And surprisingly, there are conditions where many people forget the bad image on their own face but are busy criticizing the faces of distant neighbors. Why bother with other people's business while your own house is a mess. Wife's children are not prosperous. The ants across the island are visible, the elephant in front of the nose is not visible.
Jangan pernah berharap memiliki wibawa bila amanah sudah dicabut, apalagi kehormatan telah luntur jangan pernah berharap lagi orang tunduk. Tinggal tunggu waktunya. Dan mengHerankan, ada kondisi dimana banyak orang lupa dengan gambar buruk di wajah sendiri tapi sibuk kritik wajah tetangga jauh. Buat apa repot urusan orang lain sementara rumah sendiri berantakan. Anak istri tidak sejahtera. Semut diseberang pulau tampak, gajah didepan hidung tidak terlihat.
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