We as parents should not be proud when giving advice to their children but it has an impact on destroying their household, due to interference not their capacity. No matter how great our experience is, we never know about other people's household affairs, unless young people ask for their opinion. Don't pretend to know because you are older, because on this earth there are many who claim to be old but are not consistent. It is better to examine yourself, whether it is the right way of life. It is recommended, it is better to be busy taking care of yourself by busy reading Fiqh, fill in the remaining time of life. Maybe tomorrow you will be picked up by the Angel of Death in good condition. Remember!!! parents always need a child's prayer after the shroud (di kafani).
Kita sebagai orang tua jangan berbangga diri bila memberi nasehat untuk anaknya tapi berdampak merusak rumah tangganya, akibat campur tangan bukan kapasitasnya. Sehebat apapun pengalaman kita tetap tidak pernah tahu urusan dalam rumah tangga orang lain, kecuali orang muda minta pendapatnya. Jangan sok tahu karena lebih tua, karena di bumi ini banyak yang ngaku tua tapi tidak konsisten. Sebaiknya mengkaji diri, apakah sudah benar jalan hidupnya. Disarankan, lebih baik sibuk urus diri sendiri dengan menyibukan baca Fiqih, isi sisa waktu umur. Mungkin besok antum pulang di jemput Malaikat Maut dalam keadaan baik. Ingat!!! orang tua selalu butuh doa anak setelah di kafani.